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The Sounds of Torturous Bliss
Back in May, some of you will remember I reviewed a book called “The Princess Mindset” by Scott Lucius. Looking at that piece now makes me wince. Not because the writing was false. Because the book got into me more than I wanted to admit on a public page, and I can hear myself trying to sound composed while my mind wandered aimlessly. I’m not going to go into what it’s about in depth, if you want to read the review you can read it in the link below to get the story and even download the full version. The simple version, he’s an ex-escort from Essex notorious for giving…
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I Count Tiles When Anxious Then I Name the Pattern
Steps, beats, bathroom squares. Counting is regulation dressed as fussiness. Once I notice I am doing it, I can ask what feels unsafe instead of pretending I am fine.
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Chemistry Is Not Compatibility and My Twenties Proved It
We were electric and still wrong. Heat without shared values burns the furniture. I keep that lesson close whenever a body argues with my better judgement.
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Why Competence Turns People On More Than Mystery Ever Did
Mystery is often just poor communication in a nicer coat. I would rather teach clarity: ask well, remember details, follow through. Attraction lasts longer when the mind stays in the room.
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Aftercare Should Include Talking Not Just Collapsing Afterward
I want the conversation that starts when the pulse slows. What landed. What you noticed. Sex without that coda feels unfinished, like a proof that stops early.
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Why People Patterns Pay Better Than Perfect Spreadsheets Ever Could
I work where maths meets minds. Behavioural data is not cold. It is noticing what people actually do, then turning that honesty into something useful, precise, and unexpectedly kind.
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The Princess Mindset Book Review
I've been teaching for a long time, and I thought I had seen and read it all. But this book, is a new experience. I have no doubt it's the cause of a lot of spontaneous masturbation. But when you cast a aside all the fluff, is it any good?
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Cognitive Dissonance at That Traffic Light Freshers Party
I wore yellow on purpose, then spent the night talking stats instead of following the colour code. Wanting two things at once is human. Pretending otherwise is the exhausting part.
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How I Read Micro Shifts Without Becoming Your Detective
Tone drops. Replies shorten. A body turns half an inch away. I notice because I was trained to. The work is deciding which signal actually matters.
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Ladies Queue Friendships Last Twelve Minutes and Still Matter
Essex warmth is making someone feel chosen under bad lighting, then never seeing her again. Temporary does not mean fake. Some intimacy is seasonal and still true.
